Before-After ....

" My age is 33 years.I have always had the problem of over-weight .Now,thanx to **** beauty parlour iam now fit and fine.I feel a lot confident now" --a wannabe beautiful woman

" i became bald by 20 years and i was down for my whole life.Like manna from heaven came this new therapy topical immuno therapy.I am deeply grateful to my beauticians and my clinic.Now i feel iam back" -- a balding dude

" i was very dark ..thanx to so and so ..now iam as fair as any heroine " --a confused desi girl


These statments coupled with this before and after pictures are a daily part of a newspaper or any magazine because there is one thing that counts more then anything beauty.

Some channels have even gone to the ridiculous extent of alloting air time for such beauty experts providing us with unscientific humurous ways of maintaing one self beautiful even at home..

"mix a little curd and lemon water ..together with some cow dung ..here users have to notice cow dung is purely optional ..u can also use buffalo shit ..mix them in a ratio 4:2:1 ..apply to your ugly face before u sleep and wake up in the morning and see somebody else in the mirror. "
That was one gr8 beauty tip from me.

Let's say some woman has done some therapies spending some bucks .Wat is she going to achieve after doing these things??
the answer from a typical woman is that they feel very confident ...so the next obvious question is confidence ..wat is it?

confidence as i know is something which is freedom from doubt,belief in your self and your abilities or simply it can be trust.

Now let's see whether the woman in question has achieved any of these things.

freedom from doubt --no she hasn't ..bcoz she know wat her real face was like so there is always a doubt somebody may know of her real face.

belief in oneself --no.. if she had she wouldn't resort to such frail things for beauty in the first place.

belief in abilites -- no again ..by becoming more beautiful suddenly her IQ or EQ ,or communicational,artistic skills or raw physical strength won't develop ..which are genrally regarded as a measure of ability of a person...more so,she has to spend more time near mirror and the more she is concerned how she looks and wat she wears ..the less tiem she has to develop any of the above mentioned abilites.

trust -- a big no,if she had trust on herself and her god -given face .she would n't have to seek external help..she believes her body itself is wrong ..(which first of all is mistake)..which is big boost for her to believe that probably she is bad in other things also..and slowly she may lose trust and belief on her self.

The things required for confidence are not found to increase ..but decrease ..now how can the woman say she is more confident??

Some sure advantages i can find is ..the ignorant dumb man's attention..the center of attraction for all fools in any party ..the "wow!!" 's from dumbass friends ..Is this wat is called a ravishing beauty??

Now come to those beauty enhancing advertisments ...

Advertisment as you might have realised they don't advertise products anymore ..they advertise a way of life ..they show us how to live a happy life..ok leave that..that is another big blog.

These before -after advertisments suck!! ..they tell us right in the face ..that you are a loser and we know how to make you a winner and to prove their point they show us another loser as an example.

It is high time people realise beauty is not wat u r physcially..beauty lies inside..sincerity,honesty,dedication,righteousness..all mixed up and a grand culimination of these virtues is beauty (..now i have to define the above mentioned virtues ..but please take that in a general manner).

This is a job of every teacher ..to make the poor future citizens realise in their abilties and to re-kindle the beauty they have inside them..they should not succumb to the notion
"everybody is doing it ..so why should i take any risk and do anything different??" ..this s creating gerneration after generation of losers.

Make the beauticians bite dust..the ones who teach us we are weak ..we don't need them.

The only ugly thing we can have is a diseased body ...everthing else is a qualification for beauty.

"Anything that makes you weak physically,intellectually and spiritually, reject as poison" -Swami Vivekananda

ps: the sad thing is men are also being lured into such things,they are fast becoming beauty slaves to the core..thanx to the advtmnts...they are indeed quite successful!!