Life after 40,as seen by a 20 year old.

This in response to the previous bloge of mine "the most ridiculous report i have ever read"(* a must read*)..Well probably it is narcissism to respond to an unresponsive blog of mine,but techincally that was not exactly written by me.Now wtf am i talking about it?

Iam very particular about the group of intellectuals i generally love to hate and these are those 40 something actors turned activists turned social workers soon to turn into politicians,with their wealth of experience they have gained in acting out real(reel) life situations for a decade and are now eager to reach out to the people.

These 40 something creatures can be very easily identified in any set of people ,ridiculosuly they have a jet-black-dyed white hair,which outshines even the youngest and the most youthful and they have this shady smile sporting on their faces ludicrously pointing out something they have achieved in acting out in the most mediocore stuff for a majority of time.

So here goes the wisdom that comes with age ..

Life starts at 40 (wisdom)
rant of a 20 something old-- haa really,after bobbling up life for 40 years now they have come to know life has just begun right.I always thought life is to be lived in any age and time but somehow the wisdom that comes with age says it is from 40 well, since our intellectual has crossed 40,life has just begun for this tiny 4 year(your age-40 ,gives your real age) old young tot.

suddenly you start becoming honest (another piece of crappy wisdom)
ohh!!..I always thought adults are known as adults because they act like adults and children are ones who live like children.Aren't these the ones who stop and restrict the young giving their failed life as an example for everybody to prove their point?Aren't these guys the majoirty of this weight on earth?.Offcourse, our intellectuals have lived a life of lies,deceit and are successfully designated as successful people.In reality most of the people on this crap land don't have any other idea of being a success ,as the saying goes honesty is the best policy and it is the policy of successful people these people soon become honest though sometimes they evade taxes and are the biggest defaulters in payment of any bill in any form to the government or the public.They can always do the service of acting for 10 secs ,to help the cause(i refer to the father of cinema at present,who is very much the youth icon of the old,BB). I guess we were pointed to 40 something women who don't care a damn about wat others say around them because they are 40 and it means being honest.I find a tinge of that loathing self praise of i am this ,therfore this-is-best argument.In the end they are honest and we less then 40 cannot be.

middle age in US is 60 and you are regarded as young.
haa so in US people are living upto 120 years with fun and frolic or does it mean people in US are not honest till 60 and they scream and are not diginfied till they reach that age because in India the equivalent age is 40 and people here are dignified and they don't scream(well only the policticians(esp women) who are far above 60 are an exception).They are not even bothered by praise..God knows what happens to our indian women after 40 or do they realise that they are not needed? what exactly is the problem that they are generours with praise now and they were not before?

the other piece of usual celebrity simple life comes out- do yoga,do exercise,be friendly,be happy,talk to people,maintain some journals and i guess 40 something women don't have anything better in life to do then this.Seriously are they so free as our just turned into culture-advisor points out to be. i mean the culture of the proverb like educated men can't except his wife to be virgin and our advisor supporting it..hmm experience does matter in life.

Please i recommend people over 40 NOT TO START reading poetry and learn languages because that is wat you were supposed to be doing when you were young and full of enthusiasm,with an open mind..and when there was this attitude of questioning everything that doesn't fit into the scheme of things.DO NOT solve sudoko because there is no much fun in it believe me you will soon get bored with something which u have to do in exactly the same manner(*program it and solve it once and for all god damn it!! wat are the computers for?*). Last but not the least the taking up of social causes .leaders are born young and they are the ones who take up social cause and work for it just because one is 40 and has nothing better to do ,please don't blow up some real help people need from the people.

As is with these celeb figures they are always jovial and they always try to be funnythey just don't attach that elusive ding-dong in the end to their jokes( for which they laugh like hell),so that we all know when to laugh.

I understand one thing in this land say anything but sense and there is always a publisher or a newspaper to care for the rest.To conclude i accept to one thing..i don't know whether narrow waist and broad mind has traded places for the other women..but for our intellectual surely it has.

The wisdom that comes out of the ignorance that is inherent in youth is,please don't screw up ..just because you have screwed up 40 years of your life..atleast now realise..nobody knows how to live,life just moves on..Don't hold on to the branch to save yourself from the strong current of stream flowing down(the time)..WE don't realise how much we stink when we do this saving ourselves and trying to be popluarly successful, i mean holding on to the branch.Go with the stream and experience everything.The best things in life are not the ones which we work hard to achieve..we don't even realise as long as they are there..that is life..just let it go..and try not to accomplish something..there is nothing to be accomplished.

In the end all it matters is how we lived rather then how we tried to live.

The most ridiculous report i have ever read..

here's life after forty

I am happier now, than I was at 20, says Suhasini Maniratnam

FEEL GOOD AT 40 Suhasini Maniratnam PHOTO: K. ANANTHAN

When does life for an Indian woman begin? "At 40," says actress-director Suhasini Maniratnam.

But, society will like all to believe that when they have an expanding waistline and a receding hairline, it is time to start living a retired life.

"Middle age in the U.K. is above 50; in the U.S., 60 is young. But in India middle age starts the day after you get married. Because, that is where your age first shows — in your middle. That is when a narrow waist and broad mind begin to trade places."

Talking about how to live middle age to the fullest, Suhasini, looking a million bucks at 44, rues that Indian women like to wear simplicity on their sleeves, not in the mind. "We are worried about being called names by others. After 40, you don't have to care a damn for what others feel."

Just a few changes in life can make you happier than you ever were. "I am happier than I was at 20. The world is more beautiful, more friendly ... enjoy that."

Talking about the brighter side of a woman turning 40 from a man's point of view, she says: "Women over 40 are dignified, they don't scream. They are generous with praise. They get psychic — you never have to confess, and they are forthright and honest."

"There are advantages too," she continues, in a lighter vein, "For one, you won't appeal to kidnappers. And, when they do abduct you, you are the first to be released." More important, your secrets are very safe with your friends; they can't remember them, she told an audience of giggling 40 somethings, most of whom were comfortably plump after years of taking themselves lightly.

"Exercise is so important. Take the time out for it. How many TV serials can you not miss?" Exercising the mind and body is better than going in for an expensive liposuction. Try yoga. Only exercise can sort out all the aches that announce the onset of 40."

Fulfil your emotional needs by reading poetry, solving puzzles, Sudoku, learning a new language or taking up social causes."

After 40, the meaning of happiness changes. It does not come from just feeling good; making someone else happy matters too. Aiding this effort is a personal journal. "Write anything in it. You will learn more about yourself. You can also maintain a dream journal. Write down all the dreams that you had first thing in the morning."

Friendship can also be a good solution to tackle the boredom that sets in after 40. Be interesting to younger people.

"I am still acting and am best friends with the younger actors. They message me every morning and night, forgetting even their boyfriends," she quips. A cardinal rule is to never be jealous of younger people's success.

"Now, having all this information, you are raring to answer all the questions. The trouble is, no one wants to ask you any."

PS:I will pass my invaluable comments ..soon.

The Unowrthy Lot..

They have ruled the world's richest country for 1000 years and for 300 years licked the white ass of her majesty!! and where at the best a hindrance in achieving the independence for a nation which was reduced to tatters after bearing such atrocities.This third world country was left free on 15th of some month of some year ,the exactness of which doesn't serve any purpose to my blog.

So these champions who all pray in one direction ,apparently in the direction of the center of the flat square earth...were left to compete with the slaves of the land..which by Peace Be Upon Him's grace they miserably failed and from then on they were famously called as the unworthy lot.

This lot has one work to do on earth and that is to multiply ,very much forgetting that in the proces of multiplication they are divinding their value,income and wealth.Some pigheaded person advice them not to multiply so much having a foresight of their plight ahead..but the pigheaded people have never read the arabic book,so how can they know what is good and what is bad for the lot.Some cleric ,who gets excited if a 16 year old girl plays tennis ..issues a diktat which is supposed to be word of some guy sitting on the throne far above the world,critcizing the pigheaded guy who i was talking about for advicing against the guy sitting on the throne far above the world..who blesses everybody with 72 virgins if they listen to him. So the once champions who believe number of heads which stand on a body are important then heads which can think were soon reduced to live in the filthiest parts of any city in any place of this third world country.
Though the slaves of this country soon started to work hard for their country and the family creating wealth and safety had one problem..that is their leaders.The leaders of these slaves are slaves of the champions or the unworthy lot.Well the country follows one jumbo sized ,fit for nothing book called her majesty constitution of the most secular country..which very much sees to it that nothing can work as they should be..so some slave of the unworthy who is the leader of the slaves propses a very novel idea of giving reservations in jobs,education places for the unforseen atrocities and inhuman crimes there tribe has committed on the slavish inhabitants..a very novel way of thanksgiving i should say.
In honour of their unworthiness of which entirely they bear the responsibility..the government orders are passed and the wheels were set into motion..soon the wheels ran out of fuel ,in the name of judiciary which sucked the fuel out of the locomotive which just began it's motion towards development at the cost of the hard working slaves.The next obvious thing is going to happen and that is to change the book which the judiciary follows.

I hope there soon will be reservation and a law is made in this draconian country which looks down upon it's minorities to make sure only minorities are placed in all the positions which require sheer competence and talent ..a sure quality of the unowrthy lot who after being in the limelight for thousand's of years couldn't bear the competence of the slaves for 60 years. Peace be upon them and him and War and unrest be on everybody else.

Happy New Year..

Apparently the year changed and supposedly our lives are going to change from abject misery to absolute bliss and infinite fun..so we have to enjoy the state of happiness and the newness in it..

What is with all the people ..are they really expecting anything to change or they just finding some way to escape from their otherwise pathetic lives to enjoy the unknown..i never understood.

Whatever i don't give a shit about what is it really..a happy and a prosperous new year to you all ..and i hope atleast some our lives become better in this year.